Sunday, May 11, 2008

Religion Talking in Its Sleep

Agitation and annoyance when others don’t share one’s beliefs is the surest sign, and not from above, of a hollowness to one’s convictions. It's a sign strikingly visible to others and yet not to the shrill and agitated themselves, almost as though it had been emblazoned across their foreheads while they slept like a kind of Mark of the Beast of Unexamined Doubt.

35 Comments:

Blogger vishesh said...
belief is won or lost in conviction.
if you are convinced it lives,
if not you are lost.

but questioning your belief always strengthens it...
12:49 AM  

Anonymous ghee said...
another inspiring post :) thanx for sharing!

ghee
5:49 AM  

Blogger mistipurple said...
i waver now and then but am glad it's mostly intact, my faith ie.
7:34 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
VISHESH: Sometimes questioning a belief strengthens it; other times it modifies or overturns it.

If, finally, it turns out to be a belief that one retains, then questioning it ends up having strengthened it - which may be what you were getting at...

GHEE, thanks -

MISTI: Do you think faith = belief? Are the two exact synonyms? Hmm... could be a good question for a post.
10:46 AM  

Anonymous kimiam said...
paul, you have a wonderful combination of logic and insight.
2:50 PM  

Blogger gollygee said...
Hear hear! I think this is true about everything. If you have a different opinion about something (and it's not a life or death matter) and spend an impolite amount of time trying to convince the other person that you're right, it's a sure sign of low self-esteem and general insecurity.
3:31 PM  

Anonymous codakiz said...
The"shrill and agitated," so top-heavy.....like upside down Daruma dolls.
8:14 PM  

Blogger Tess said...
I think you're right about this. I also think that in our one-dimensional society, we try to come at faith/belief (interesting remark about whether the two are synonyms) from a purely cerebral level. I.e. people plough through theological texts and employ verbal argument, when faith is also a matter of wordless and logic-less experience. Trouble is, this is not often seen as valid.
3:33 AM  

Blogger vishesh said...
er...yes...but well looking at the larger picture...difference do need to exist isn't it...
4:46 AM  

Anonymous enso said...
The difference between faith and belief would make an interesting topic! The question, too, of faith in faith.
7:56 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
KIMIAM: And you’re insightful yourself... (chuckle out loud…)

GG: Good point – it could be a broader generalization…

CODAKIZ: Wish I knew what a Daruma doll is. If I’d been able to leave the house in the last four years, maybe that would help… Like a Cabbage Patch doll? I think those were top heavy…

I think maybe I use ellipses too much on comments threads… they’re sort of addictive…

TESS: Yes, I think the experiential generally gets downplayed in western religion; and I have read things from the far right that treat this aspect as invalid. I think the mainstream perspective in Christianity is not so much that it's invalid as that it’s less central or important than doctrine.

VISHESH: I see – you’re saying that for certain individuals, questioning their beliefs would necessarily result in strengthening them.

ENSO: The first distinction you cite is one that I develop in my book; the second, I haven’t thought of.

My first reaction to the second is that I have trouble seeing how it would make literal sense as an experience – but it may well have figurative meaning. Did you have anything particular in mind? Maybe you could post on that one! (If you have a blog... If you do, please leave your URL sometime so I can find it.)
10:49 AM  

Blogger timjamz said...
For some, to have their beliefs questioned forces them into a fight or flight response, as you've said in the post and in your comments. What I'm trying to figure out is if such an irritation or agitation is the fight or the flight?

For true convictions (i.e. beliefs or faith) to be evidenced as strongly held, one must not be agitated by questioning or the expression that one's beliefs are not shared by another?

I almost think, for a person to become agitated or annoyed by this, it is evidence of a person's shallowness or hollowness of personal character, rather than their beliefs. Or, does it go to say that the beliefs of one whose character is shallow naturally follows suit?
12:46 PM  

Blogger Hayden said...
hmmmmm...... d'you really think that there is such a thing as too many ellipses?

such a satisfying way of leaving the end dangling.... not question or assertion.... more conversational ...

;-)
5:41 PM  

Blogger Paul said...
TIMJAMZ: The only thing that’s clear to me is that the kind of hostility and anger that people sometimes display when their religious beliefs are questioned is a reaction to feeling highly threatened.

HAYDEN: Wow – I think you hit the nail on the head. That’s it – ellipses make sentences more – conversational. Still – don’t you think that kind of thing can be, I don’t know – overdone? I’m pretty sure that I’ve been overdoing it - kind of - with the ellipses.

VISHESH, PS: Is it possible to know oneself as someone whose beliefs are invariably strengthened when one questions them and also know that one is a rigorous critic of one’s own beliefs?
8:06 PM  

Blogger Donn said...
The harder that someone strikes back or bites back, even at the slightest provocation, is a sure sign of insecurity.

I guess there is no need to point out who the most obvious & worst 'offendees' are these days...
didn't think so.
11:41 PM  

Blogger timjamz said...
LOL! This is true. Some definitely do - like a cat backed into a corner.
12:56 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
DONN: Seems to me that the religious far right is most prone to it, going mainly by my experience on blogs. In fairness, I have met people who were pretty far right who didn't have that element of anger/intolerance - but it's seemed to me that as you go way-right, respect for diverse opinions wanes.

TIMJAMZ: Exactly.
2:22 PM  

Blogger Cure of Ars said...
I think what you are saying can be true in some situations but not all.

There can be a legitimate reason to be angry about being presented with what one sees as a lie. To honor Truth demands this at times. Take for example someone teaching creationism as science in a public school biology class. People will get made at this and rightfully so. To respect truth demands this. I try not to do comparative religion because of this. To put the deposit of faith that I received from Christ on the same level as other religions -to be compared- just makes a mockery of the faith. It's like comparing science with alchemy from my perspective. Comparative religion in a real way makes you comparatively religious now matter what revelation you hold too.

It can just get old as well. To be told every other day, “have you taken Jesus as your personal lord and savior” can be annoying. I don't blame someone who is constantly asked this in getting mad. Sometimes one just needs respite to live ones faith without always having to question ones own premises. It's like never being able to start a race because someone is always challenging that you left before the gun went off.

The anger response comes just as much from the left as from the right. It's just human nature. I would suggest that the reason that this has been your experience is because you don't challenge left leaning premises as much. Go challenged someone one the left about global warming, abortion, and evolution and see how angry they can get. I have been at the receiving end of this type of anger from both sides.
10:51 PM  

Blogger vishesh said...
when on a path,
a light leads,
the origin of the light,
is unknown yet known.

to know the origin,
we need to ask-
once asked ,one
tries to understand his light.

even if it leads to a fight,
to internal strife,the power,
which leads will restore the might,
which a person has in his faith.


for the question to come,
it takes a long time,
for it is inspired by
experience and obedience.

obedience to the spirit of rebellion,
obedience to the spirit of
union,
experience of the soul,
experience of the body.

the purpose of a question,
is not to hasten
but to tighten
one's trust in self-light.

the pilgrimage has crossroads,
it also has friends and foes,
each an angel or devil,
propose questions.

once a question is done with,
the answer's spirit,
gives strength and valour
and belief in the path.
12:55 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
CURE OF ARS: Seems to me also that anger isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Sometimes, it rises to the real defense of a real good; many other times, it arises as an emotional reaction that centers on defending one's lesser nature – for example, the desire to be superior or right.

My experiences don't support the idea of the faith-weakening effects of studying other religions. I attended the U of Chicago divinity school, where faculty members are not only scholars, but Christian ministers representing a wide variety of denominations - I believe this is also the case at most other divinity schools in the US with strong academic reputations.

I saw no signs that my professors’ knowledge of non-Christian faiths weakened theirs. Also, the student body consisted mainly of committed Christians, with many students preparing for the ministry.

I think you’re right – that at some point, faith becomes a practice and a commitment. However, an interest in other religions doesn’t preclude this. And the more that people understand the traditions of others, the harder it is to demonize them.

It could be, as you say, that as you go to the far left of the spectrum, as well as the far right, there’s more of a tendency to respond to the viewpoints of others with rancor.

VISHESH: I get a sense from your words, overall, that in your view experience is just as integral and important to spiritual life as belief. That's my perspective too.

“the purpose of a question,
is not to hasten
but to tighten
one's trust in self-light.”

I can see (and have experienced) how this may be recognized in retrospect and when “self-light” is not misconstrued as ego-identity. I know you’re not misconstruing it that way, but I mention this for readers who might otherwise necessarily read “self-light” as the opposite of something like, say, “divine light.”

However, at the time we ask the question, can we be said to honestly question our beliefs if our questions have any purpose – however laudable – outside of whether our beliefs appear to be true?
11:50 AM  

Blogger crystal said...
I think what you said about knowledge of other faiths not necesarrily diminishing one's own faith is true. Near where I live there's the Graduate Theological Union in Berkley that has a divirsity of faiths represented.

As for getting upset about one's beliefs being qustioned, a couple of the most upset people I've noticed recently have been the athesits Christopher Hutchins and Richard Dawkins :)
2:06 PM  

Blogger Cure of Ars said...
I think I need to do a better job of defining terms. When I say comparative religion I mean placing two religions on the same level. Let me give an example. I own and have read some of the Koran and the Book of Mormon. But I don’t read them in the same way I read the Bible. The Bible is the sacred word of God. It is a love letter that God has given me. God speaks to me through the Bible. By contrast when I read the Koran and the Book of Mormon it is in the context of an un-sacred un-inspired human creation. To ether lower ones revelation to the context of human creation or lift these other text up as equal to ones revelation does a great injustice to Truth and ones own faith. You can’t have your cake and eat it to. Comparative religion tries to have both and in so doing fails.
5:47 PM  

Anonymous Liara Covert said...
Its amazing what we can learn while our physical body sleeps. Our spirit has the freedom to explore different dimensions and encounter different energy vibrations and points of view. The ego doesn't hold us back or prevent us from sensing the truth. Not everyone is ready or willing to accept what they learn during sleep. The conscious mind embraces ideas based on your level of self-acceptance and self-understanding.
8:13 PM  

Blogger Paul said...
CRYSTAL: Yes, I think it may have been Hutchins, I'm not positive, who I heard described as having used mindlessly heavy-handed tactics in a recent debate with a believer – interrupting him repeatedly, shouting him down and otherwise not giving him the chance to be heard.

Thanks for the link - looks like it supports my reply to CUA as follows:

CURE OF ARS: Your outlook strikes me as consistent with that of the majority of people who seriously study religion. Divinity school means that you’re going for your master’s or doctorate, with a good chance you’re headed for the ministry. Students at that level usually have strong existing faith commitments. Such settings have the advantage of fostering understanding and respect for the traditions of others.

LIARA: As far as literal sleep goes and dreaming in particular, I agree that it’s underrated and under-utilized. Dreams can be profound and provide important insight and direction.
9:37 PM  

Blogger Cure of Ars said...
I agree Paul,

I can affirm and respect the truth that is in other traditions. I respect Muslims prayer to the one true God. I respect Mormons focus on family. I am free to respect these truths because I am grounded in my own faith tradition. These truths have there source in Christ and to pay them respect is to pay Christ respect. But I think this line of reasoning goes only one direction. You have to be first be grounded. Let me give an example of how I see this. It's like learning to play classical music as a child which can prepare her to play jazz as an adult. But flipping this around doesn't really work.
10:41 PM  

Blogger vishesh said...
hmm...paul lts take an example...a football (soccer) player...sets his goal at scoring a say 2 goals against a team...but on that particular day the other team defense is just too good and he too is not well...naturally he will question himself...he hadn't scored...so his goal will be towards the next match or phrase...whether he takes it as a failure or a lesson is left to him...but the work he will put into his game for the next match ,just to prove it to himself that he has goods will be the stand out point...

and in life ...certain things act as an catalyst to make us behave in certain ways...and since experience is the food...the other factors become the ingredients...
12:58 AM  

Blogger beth♥ said...
Amen!
11:30 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
CURE OF ARS: I can’t remember which course/professor it was, but I remember finding the concept of “bracketing” one’s beliefs useful as a way to allow for positive and useful communication with others.

For example, if a Christian and a Muslim were to approach each other with “Jesus is the Christ” and “Muhammad is the Seal of the Prophets,” with each insisting on trying to convince the other of what he or she viewed as a central religious truth before proceeding further, the conversation couldn’t go anywhere – couldn’t develop into a conversation at all.

But instead of focusing on areas of disagreement that can’t be reconciled, it’s possible to set them aside just for purposes of discussion. This allows people to go on to learn further details about each others’ traditions and perspectives, develop a clearer understanding of the basis for the differences, and see areas of common ground.

VISHESH: I see how experiences work as catalysts for further efforts. And I view spiritual and religious truth as being at least as much about growing experientially and consciously in ways that lead us to do good in the world as it is about statements concerning what one believes.

However, if we’re still talking about doctrine or belief, it seems to me that questioning a belief doesn’t have the same sort of potential for open-ended growth. Of course, a person, once he or she has accepted a belief as true, can then grow in his or her understanding of its implications. But questioning the belief itself and to begin with seems to me to be a matter of looking at whether or not it appears in some sense fact or reality-based. And to decide ahead of time that questioning a given belief in this manner will necessarily result in affirming it would be tendentious, wouldn’t it?

So when does the rest of the world finally catch up, use the word football correctly, and forget about the metric system?

BETH, thanks for stopping by -
3:09 PM  

Blogger vishesh said...
hmmm...by when does the rest of the world catch up do mean to say that take the same thing as truth? i think this will not happen,because we have a reasoning which usually bases things on what it hears,sees ,smells and feels...from the time a child is born ,if it is bred in one culture it will be of that culture....the reason why i am like this is because my environment was like this...if i were to try and believe in something else it will be difficult...

and yes when you first question,you will rebel...that is the tendency...so if you live in an environment which supports an i dea,you will rebel more...and you cannot rebel without answering your self as to why you are doing that...and if you live in a con environment...well whatever other thing you take up,you will be tempted to rebel that too...and finally you will accept something...

but truthfully speaking you cannot find anything until you are lost...so i feel its important for each one to go astray in someway...
1:13 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
VISHESH: Football/metric system was just kidding – I’m pretty sure the US is the only place on earth that calls football “soccer” and doesn't use the metric system. I don’t think it’s the rest of the world that needs to catch up on this!

What you say here I mainly agree with, but what I asked in my previous comment is whether it’s possible to genuinely question the veracity of one’s beliefs if one’s starting premise is that questioning them will lead to reaffirming them.
10:30 AM  

Blogger hazzbuzz said...
You always get the best view from sitting on the fence, but I suppose it's not conducive to acting, but then is it a good thing to act when you haven't got the whole picture? It's possible to really screw things up with the best intentions in the world.
4:48 PM  

Blogger vishesh said...
hmm...i understand what you are asking now...the only reason you will question something is that your belief in that is not strong enough...at least thats how it begins...at least thats how it began for me..by questioning everything around ,i started understanding where the truth lay and what was as we Indians call "masala"...even now i question myself but am aware of the fact that i should be able to do that without prejudice,so i just create a character which will speak against my belief...and i give myself and the other character an equal chance to argue...most often than not , i discover that there are so many things i have been over looking when i do this exercise...
2:04 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
HAZZBUZZ: I follow you but it’s worded generally… not quite sure of its application in this context - ?

VISHESH: I can see that, imagine it – creating another character who you give equal standing with yourself in debate, so to speak. Sounds like for you, this has the same goal and result as the approach I've used: allowing you to critically examine your own positions, and in the process, find out some things that you wouldn’t have otherwise.
2:22 PM  

Blogger vishesh said...
but from do questions come from? i mean not like from the mind,what triggers question in some while others remain static ? what makes certain people see the sky as being the window to the universe,rather than a blue-illusion?
12:54 AM  

Blogger Paul said...
VISHESH: I also wonder about how different yet how similar people seem to be.
2:24 AM  

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